AP: New Orleans Clergy Need Counseling

by Danny Fisher

From the Associated Press:

    Clergymen struggling to comfort the afflicted in New Orleans are finding they, too, need someone to listen to their troubles.

    The sight of misery all around them–and the combined burden of helping others put their lives back together while repairing their own homes and places of worship–are taking a spiritual and psychological toll on the city’s ministers, priests and rabbis, many of whom are in counseling two years after Hurricane Katrina.

    Almost every local Episcopal minister is in counseling, including Bishop Charles Jenkins himself, who has been diagnosed with post-traumatic stress disorder.

    enkins, whose home in suburban Slidell was so badly damaged by Katrina that it was 10 months before he and his wife could move back in, said he has suffered from depression, faulty short-term memory, and difficulty concentrating or sleeping.

    Low-flying helicopters sometimes cause flashbacks to the near-despair–the “dark night of the soul”–into which he was once plunged, he said. He said the experience felt “like the absence of God”–a lonely and frightening sensation.

    Churches and synagogues have played an important role in New Orleans’ recovery, supplying money and thousands of volunteers to rebuild homes and resettle families. But an April survey found 444 places of worship in metropolitan New Orleans–about 30 percent–were still closed 20 months after the storm because they were damaged or their congregations scattered.

    As for the clergymen, “sometimes they’re having to hold it together and put up a great front to give people permission to fall apart, so they can be the great rock that their congregation can depend upon,” said Barney Self, who operates a counseling hot line for Southern Baptist ministers.

    Still, Self said, he has received relatively few calls from New Orleans ministers, probably because it is hard to think about your own needs “when you’re up to your bahootie in alligators.”

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    Many clergymen are reluctant to ask for help, keeping their feelings bottled up the way doctors and firefighters often do, said Karen Binder-Brynes, a New York psychologist who specializes in post-traumatic stress and whose clients include the Episcopal Diocese of New Orleans.

    She and others worry that that clergy members who do not get help could fall ill or resort to drinking or other “self-medication” for relief, and their marriages and other family relationships could suffer.