BOOK REVIEW: I Will Not Be Broken: Five Steps to Overcoming a Life Crisis by Jerry White
Welcome to another new feature here at the blog: book reviews. As a way of inaugurating this new series, I would like to offer my review of author Jerry White‘s new book I Will Not Be Broken: Five Steps to Overcoming a Life Crisis. I was recently invited by Dani Sevilla of Survivor Corps to do this, and, because I was aware of and interested in White’s work, I accepted.
White is co-founder of the aforementioned Survivor Corps (formerly the Landmine Survivors Network), an NGO dedicated to “helping all those who have suffered from global conflict and its lasting effects.” He is also a leader in the International Campaign to Ban Landmines, which was a co-recipient of the 1997 Nobel Peace Prize. As a young student, White lost his leg and was nearly killed when he stepped on and activated a landmine during a camping trip in Israel. Since then, he has dedicated his life to teaching others the art of survivorship. I Will Not Be Broken is a culmination of his work.
The book is unique among others written by Nobel Peace laureates and/or those who have helped to lead movements and organizations honored with the prize. Usually, books by these authors can be put into one of two categories: “autobiography” (like, for example, His Holiness the Dalai Lama’s Freedom in Exile, Wangari Maathai’s Unbowed, or Shirin Ebadi’s Iran Awakening) or “mission statement” (Archbishop Desmond Tutu’s No Future without Forgiveness, Jody Williams’ Banning Landmines, Muhammad Yunus’ Creating a World Without Poverty). White’s book would more appropriately be classified as “self-help”; his aim here is to assist those affected deeply by crisis.
White writes that he does not set out to answer the question of “why bad things happen.” Instead, his goal is to present methods for “overcoming/absorbing blows.” It’s about “determination,” he says–”choosing” to find happiness. Though he’s the founder of an organization called Survivor Corps, he makes it clear that I Will Not Be Broken is about more than just survival–it’s about “growing stronger.”
White lays out five steps for surviving and growing stronger, and devotes a chapter to each:
- Face facts
- Choose life
- Reach out
- Get moving
- Give back
I Will Not Be Broken succeeds brilliantly at being what it sets out to be: a thoughtful, sensitive, and useful guide along the path of survivorship. I found it inspiring in all the right places, well-reasoned, and down-to-earth. Being able to discover more about White’s own journey and where he looks for guiding lights is also a valuable aspect of the book. Near the end, he writes:
- We don’t always have to look for larger-than-life heroes. We can be heroes for each other. We are just ordinary folks wanting to endure and live life well, even during the rough patches. But we can all benefit from role models who not only overcome adversity, but find the wherewithal to give back and serve the broader community.
White is certainly one such role model–one who has, to borrow some of his rhetoric, “completed the cycle of survivorship.” We have much we can learn from him.
I highly recommend I Will Not Be Broken to you, and I thank Dani for bringing it to my attention.


